Pet Peeves for Relationships

1. When in an argument with partner and you both have two different viewpoints of what was said or done during a moment in the past.  Just wish there was a video of the moment to prove the point one way or another.
2. When your partner leaves their trash like someone else is supposed to throw it away.
3. When your partner thinks they are always right when making big financial decisions and they always end up wrong.
4. When your partner just tunes you out when you are talking to them.
5. When your partner is intimate so infrequently you have to clean up the cobwebs first.
6. Just having to try to accept the flaws and annoying things your partner does.
7. When your partner looks better when they go to work or hang out with their friends then when you go out with them.
8. When your partner cleans up around the house when their friends come over but not regularly any other time.
9. When your partner calls you on phone to many times in a day.
10. When your partner doesn’t listen to your advice especially if they listen to everyone else’s.
11. When your partner believes for something to be true it has to come from an expert.
12. When your partner complains about some aspect of your physical appearance however they aren’t perfect also but you accept it.
13. When your partner goes a little crazy when shopping for gifts or non-essential items (e.g. essential items being groceries, etc.).
14. When your partner leaves or quits jobs when not even having it that long.
15. When your partner can’t predict or see likely upcoming future based on how things are going now.
16. When your partner forgets about plans you made with them.
17. When your partner cancels or tries to cancel on plans made way in advance.

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Do you think premartial sex is okay or not in our modern world?

I am writing this post to get your opinions on the topic of whether you think premarital sex is okay or not in our modern world?  We all know it is not going to disappear or stop however I just want to find out if you think it is wise or not and why?

I don’t believe it wrong myself but just that people have to be careful and not be to promiscuous.  I especially feel it is important if you are in a relationship that is leading to possible marriage.  Since I feel it is important you know if you are sexually compatible with your partner.

We all know most religions are against premartial sex and that is the main argument against besides being worried about catching an sexually transmitted disease (STD) or getting pregnant.  Some parents just don’t want their kids to be having sex since they feel it is a lost of innocence and a sign their kid is not a baby any longer.  Some parents also just don’t want their kids being distracted from their goals of finishing school and getting a career by getting involved in serious relationships and complicating it with sex.

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Should you live with your significant other prior to getting married?

The main two arguments for why a couple should not live together is because of religion and why a couple should live together is normally going to be so they can get to know one another.  The religious would state if a couple loves each other they would be able to work out everything once married because of love and compromise.  On the other hand those in the camp for a couple living together prior to marriage would say to give a marriage the best chance of being successful it would be best for the couple to live together first.  When a couple lives together first they will see how their partners really are in everyday life and see all the positives and negatives.  It is harder for some one to hide flaws from their partner if the other is there almost all the time.  Living together the couple will see how their partner deals with finances, everyday chores, cooking, cleaning, washing dishes, their moods, likes and dislikes (in terms of music, television, movies, food, games, etc.), etc.  Last the couple will determine if they are sexually compatible.

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Do not enter a marriage expecting to change or fix your partner

If you only see yourself being happy in the marriage based on your being able to change your partner during marriage then do not get married.  If you are not happy with your partner the way they are just don’t jump the broom.  Most people do not change and will only change for themselves normally.  If you want them to change they must do that before you get married.  Otherwise I believe it is your fault for marrying them with the issues you have with them and expecting them to change because you want them to.

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Risk takers and Optimist in marriage do need to learn to restrain themselves or listen to their partner

Those who are risk takers and optimist in marriages and long term relationships must be careful to not alienate themselves from their partners and family and not be an anchor to the couple’s or family’s well being.  You can’t continue to take gambles especially financial ones in either business or major purchases. Since if things do not work out as you expect and this happens with many of your decisions your partner or family suffers.  Especially if your partner states specifically their reservations with the idea or suggested an alternative that might be safer.  If you have many setbacks you might lose your partner or family.

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