Do not enter a marriage expecting to change or fix your partner

If you only see yourself being happy in the marriage based on your being able to change your partner during marriage then do not get married.  If you are not happy with your partner the way they are just don’t jump the broom.  Most people do not change and will only change for themselves normally.  If you want them to change they must do that before you get married.  Otherwise I believe it is your fault for marrying them with the issues you have with them and expecting them to change because you want them to.

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Risk takers and Optimist in marriage do need to learn to restrain themselves or listen to their partner

Those who are risk takers and optimist in marriages and long term relationships must be careful to not alienate themselves from their partners and family and not be an anchor to the couple’s or family’s well being.  You can’t continue to take gambles especially financial ones in either business or major purchases. Since if things do not work out as you expect and this happens with many of your decisions your partner or family suffers.  Especially if your partner states specifically their reservations with the idea or suggested an alternative that might be safer.  If you have many setbacks you might lose your partner or family.

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Withholding sex from your partner because of their being slightly overweight or out of shape

In my opinion this is ridiculous because if you two were having sex then you both would be losing weight by burning calories.  The sex could be used as exercise especially if you are doing it often or for long periods of time.  This would be one of the most enjoyable ways to lose weight and don’t think anyone would not want to work out he-he.

I know this does not work from personal experience.  In the first place this is wrong if your partner was that way when you met.  I could understand if your partner gained a ton of weight after being with them.  If this situation you might want to consider leaving if your partner isn’t trying to lose the weight if you do not feel any attraction towards them at this weight.  I don’t understand if your partner was this way already since I would not enter into a relationship with someone if I did not find them attractive.  So I don’t understand how someone can enter into a relationship and expect them to change afterwards.

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Los Angeles (LA) Sports Fans Are Not Loyal

The sports fans in Los Angeles are only supportive when any of LA teams are doing well but when they aren’t you barely see any fans.  A good example would be to take a look at the Los Angeles Clippers, USC Basketball team, USC Football team, former Los Angeles Rams and former Los Angeles Raiders.  These teams during most of the past 30 years or more haven’t had a strong fan base.  The exception would be the USC football team which did get a fan base but only after winning some championships.  The fans that do come to the games aren’t noisy and loud compared to other stadiums around the country.

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The Real Reason the U.S. Economy is in such Bad Shape

The reason the U.S. Economy is doing so badly is not surprising but sure isn’t really being discussed by media.  The source of this plight is the wars the U.S. is involved in.  The U.S. is spending One Trillion dollars a year on the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.  This doesn’t include the over 300 Billion Dollars spent on our regular defense budget and doesn’t include our conflict in Libya.  Now how can any country do well for such a long period of time as we have been involved in these wars.  We have been going on for 10 plus years and we are still losing soldiers.  There is definitely a direct correlation with a National Debt and the total cost spent on these wars.  Just a few weeks ago the U.S. reached it’s cap on National Debt.  This means which maxed out in terms of how much debt we are suppose to acquire and that we aren’t suppose to borrow any longer.  The amount of the National Debt was around 14.8 Trillion.  If you add up the years of fighting it will get us pretty close to the National Debt and will almost equal it if you tally in amount spent on National Defense.  The only solution to improve our economy and the world’s is to end the wars.

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Libyan Conflict is a Joke and excuse to Dethrone Moammar Gadhafi

The U.S. and NATO are just using the rebels trying to overthrow Libya’s Moammar Gadhafi as an excuse to dethrone him.    The U.S. and NATO say they are involved to keep the rebels from being slaughtered without mercy.  I say this is crap and to me that is what happens to rebels if they don’t win.  If the U.S. was really interested in policing the world they would be involved in half the countries around the world including within the U.S. itself and not just Libya.  I read the France and England might have intiated or pushed for getting involved just to show off their fighter jets that are in contention for a military contract by India.  These are the only two jets they are flying over Libya just the ones that are up for contract.  France and England just used attack helicopters to take out some targets in Libya.  You can’t tell me the U.S. and NATO aren’t supporting the rebels and helping them to win.  Without all this support from the U.S. and NATO the rebels would of been done.

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Men and women should not have an issue with going down or performing oral sex on their partners

This is especially the case if you enjoy oral sex being performed on you but you do not want to reciprocate.  I know the majority of women love oral sex being performed on them if done correctly but a lot of women do not want to return the favor if someone performs it on them.  In addition most men enjoy oral sex being performed on them if it is done correctly also.

Men I don’t understand how a lot of you would not want to perform oral sex on your partner.  Since for the majority of our lives we have been obsessed with seeing up females skirts and under their panties from the time we were young boys till the time we go into the grave.  We have been continuously trying to get into women’s pants and yet when given the opportunity to go down a lot of men do not want to.  This should not be an issue if your partner is clean or has no sexually transmitted diseases.  I do understand some men perhaps not feeling comfortable or dirty going down if they were raised conservatively or very religiously.

Women I know most  of you been raised to see sex as being naughty, dirty, or to be done after being wed.  It is not dirty and not something that shouldn’t be done.  On the contrary people should be having sex all the time.  If it was being done all the time the world would be a lot happier.  At least if everyone was having their needs met from the experience.  So everyone must tell their partners if their partner needs to change something or improve on something.  Everyone should have an orgasm or climax when having sex.  If you aren’t climaxing then I could understand you not wanting to have sex or be desiring of it.    Also ladies you should see performing oral sex on a man the same as sucking on a lollipop or gummy worm.  As long as the man is clean and doesn’t have any sexually transmitted diseases it shouldn’t be a problem.

For men and women you can make going down more exciting by adding some food to the equation.  You can use whip cream, jello, honey, melted (liquid) chocolate, jelly, jam, peanut butter, etc.  I sure most would be more willing to go down if there is food to lick or suck on.  So everyone just try to enjoy sex and not let society freak you out when you are in the bedroom with your partner.  Just let your inhibitions go and get freaky.

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Women need to approach guys they find attractive more often

I have not been approached by many women during my adult life.  I find this interesting women just don’t go for it and talk to the guy they find attractive and let him know it.  Most guys are morons when it comes to actually knowing if a woman is flirting with them or if she is just being nice.  So if you are putting signs out that you are interested in a guy and he hasn’t made a move it could be because he just doesn’t recognize your signs or the guy is not interested or last the guy is shy.  Women you might need to be more obvious or just go over to the guy and ask if he is interested in you.

Many times I have thought someone was interested just to find out they were being nice or had a boyfriend.  So I became weary of approaching women out of fear of being embarrassed and rejected.  So ladies if you really like a guy go after him it is not likely you will be turned down if you are attractive and if you are turned down I am sure most guys will be nice about it.

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Dads need to be there for their kids and not just run off and be deadbeats

Dads you have to be men and not get scared or act like kids and leave a woman whom was good enough for you to sleep with but not good enough for you to man up and provide for her and your kid.  If you did not want kids then you should of used contraception (e.g. rubber, condom, glove).  I know condoms suck and it decreases your stimulation but if you don’t want kids you have to use it otherwise you are dependent on the women taking her pill and it working.  Some women actually want to get pregnant and might tell you they took it when they didn’t.  So if you want to chance it then don’t use a condom.  If you want to be certain then put on a condom.

Dads provide for your kids financially, emotionally, being there to help the mom, and as being a role model. Even if you are not able to provide financially because you are not working you do need to try your best to find a job but in the meantime you do have to be around to help the mom in anyway she needs it.  So you can watch and teach your kid/s to help out.  You can help with cleaning up and doing chores around the house since all these things contribute and should be greatly appreciated.

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