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Men and women should not have an issue with going down or performing oral sex on their partners


This is especially the case if you enjoy oral sex being performed on you but you do not want to reciprocate.  I know the majority of women love oral sex being performed on them if done correctly but a lot of women do not want to return the favor if someone performs it on them.  In addition most men enjoy oral sex being performed on them if it is done correctly also.

Men I don’t understand how a lot of you would not want to perform oral sex on your partner.  Since for the majority of our lives we have been obsessed with seeing up females skirts and under their panties from the time we were young boys till the time we go into the grave.  We have been continuously trying to get into women’s pants and yet when given the opportunity to go down a lot of men do not want to.  This should not be an issue if your partner is clean or has no sexually transmitted diseases.  I do understand some men perhaps not feeling comfortable or dirty going down if they were raised conservatively or very religiously.

Women I know most  of you been raised to see sex as being naughty, dirty, or to be done after being wed.  It is not dirty and not something that shouldn’t be done.  On the contrary people should be having sex all the time.  If it was being done all the time the world would be a lot happier.  At least if everyone was having their needs met from the experience.  So everyone must tell their partners if their partner needs to change something or improve on something.  Everyone should have an orgasm or climax when having sex.  If you aren’t climaxing then I could understand you not wanting to have sex or be desiring of it.    Also ladies you should see performing oral sex on a man the same as sucking on a lollipop or gummy worm.  As long as the man is clean and doesn’t have any sexually transmitted diseases it shouldn’t be a problem.

For men and women you can make going down more exciting by adding some food to the equation.  You can use whip cream, jello, honey, melted (liquid) chocolate, jelly, jam, peanut butter, etc.  I sure most would be more willing to go down if there is food to lick or suck on.  So everyone just try to enjoy sex and not let society freak you out when you are in the bedroom with your partner.  Just let your inhibitions go and get freaky.

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